The Sunshine Blogger Award (4)

Award from dear friends has a higher value !

The person who nominated me is my little friend Canito.  This is the first award  in which I am nominated by such a young blogger.And that is real honor, because kids are so honest. He have a great mum Vero, and she meets all his culinary desires and publishes them on their site With colours and Canito in the kitchen.

Thank you guys 🙂

Here are the rules for this award:

  • Thank the blogger who nominated you and link back to their blog √
  • Answer the 11 questions asked by the blogger who nominated them √
  • Nominate 11 other blogs and give them 11 new questions to answer √
  • Notify your nominees and display the Sunshine Blogger Award logo in your post √

Answers on questions 

  1. What is your best memory to your childhood? My whole childhood is one great memory .Sometimes some period of life should pass through to become aware of how beautiful it was.Carelessness, is my best emotion from my childhood !
  2. What is your most favorite dish? I love to eat chicken breast, on any way.They are so delicious , and what is very important they are very healthy.
  3. What is your biggest fear? That we will destroyed our beautiful planet with our selfishness.
  4. How do you start your day? With meditation. I wake up fifteen minutes earlier, to start my day with meditation, with silence, with peace.
  5. What is your biggest dream? That is  freedom.Geographical freedom, to be in any place on Earth where I want to be. Time freedom, to be in any place when I want to be! 

My nominees are:

The long road to yourself
yasininanikovani
Sumith
Tashnee
A Learning Poet

Questions for my nominees :

In what you believe ?
Are you ready for change ?
Do you think that you have an opened mind ?
Can people affect you?
Are you living on the way you want ?

It Is Hard

It is hard sometimes to be different,it is hard, but it is necessary ! 

It’s hard to be your own, because we are all trying to assimilate into the society.To be socially acceptable we try to think like the other,to look like the other,to listen the music like others, to watch the same shows like others.But we are not like others. We are a unique combination of energy and matter .Wake up !!!

It’s hard to be positive when  there is a lot of negativity around us. Movies are destructive. I do not remember when I looked a movie without at least one murder.Watching other people’s accidents brings you a lot of views on the you tube. In this way, our subconscious mind is shaped to accept such things as normal.

It’s hard respect others when nobody respects us. Generally we live in material word, where only money is respected.If you don’t have money, that means that you are incompetent.Today, false values take precedence.

It’s hard  to help others when no one wants to help us. Our  subconscious mind is formed from birth.Starting with cartoons ,through video games, movies, musics . They teach us that “only the strongest survive“. Yes, this is true, but in animal world. We are humans  !

It’s hard  to be grateful when they learn us that we have to do something with our lives to be grateful for. On this way maybe, you will never be  satisfied enough to say Thank you ! You should be grateful now, not tomorrow.Be grateful for today, for life, kids, health,sight, day, night. Look in the future but be grateful for your present. 

It’s hard to speak about soul  in material world, in the world when the material values are higher. Why they don’t teach us in the school that we are so powerful beings that we can heal ourselves, that we are  the most powerful beings in the world, that we should build our emotions  .Because we must buy  medicines not to heal ourselves.

It’s hard to be gentle when they teach us to be tough. Tenderness is treated as a weakness in this world. I watch one show where husbands sent a message to  their wives. Simple message “I love you”.Women were shocked,literally. In a life race for money we forget  the most important thing “Love”. We have forgotten the reason we were born. Sun of love is always above our heads, and in our lives, just pay attention to him.

It’s hard but it is necessary my friends if you want to be a human beings. It’s hard to be a man these days.Share love, be gentle, be nice , be kind,be like a baby  because you are human being,with all the faults and virtues.

It’s hard but you must know that You Can Do It !!!

Obstacle(s)

                                        The greater the obstacle(s), the more glory in overcoming it!
                                                                                                                                    Moliere 


Once lived one man on the island.He was engaged in cattle breeding.He had  sheep, cows, horses.Then he decide  to sell everything he had and to move into the city, to  become a photographer,because he loved to watch pictures in the newspapers.

And he sold everything and became a photographer.Just like that, he bought a camera and found a job in local newspapers.And he worked every day without any problems.Then he decided to become an actor.He applied for an audition for a new film and he got the main role.He became a famous actor.

Then, he decided to marry and have a family.He found a woman of his dreams and they got married.He bought the house of his dreams. Then he decided to become a famous singer.He went to the studio and recorded a couple of songs and became famous all around the world.

He became unhappy with his life and with successes  and none of them he did not appreciate enough.He started drinking and like everything in life he was the best in that too.

What was missing to the main character of my story ?

Obstacles. Everything went smoothly in his life.Most people who win a lottery spend all the money and  back to the start.Why. Because they do not appreciate them enough because they came to them easily.

Story above is not real, because we need obstacle(s) on our way in order to achieve success and evolve.

Obstacles are your road sign that you are on the right road. Without them you would be lost.Without them you would not appreciate enough your success. Without them you  can not make success!

PER ASPER AD ASTRA-through hardships to the stars!

Whatever you do in life, you will meet obstacles.You will find them on your way , you can be sure,but you must prepare your brain for them. No matter how good you are, or you think you are, you will find obstacle (s) on your way.You have here two choices :
– to let them to discourage you;
– to overcome them.

First, you must defeat  your biggest obstacle. Your mind .Your mind could be your biggest friend or  your worst enemy.The biggest obstacle is in your head.When you  overpower that obstacle, all others will be a piece of cake for you.

Do yo think that you have to be beautiful to be a famous actor ?You’re wrong! Just look at the Sylvester Stallone. Because of birth trauma, the lower left side of his face is paralyzed, just like his mouth,they are slightly crooked and his tongue is partly paralyzed.But his brain was not his biggest obstacle!

Or Madeline Stuart who was born with Down Syndrome but she had a one dream . To become a model!? And she did it.She recently appeared as a model on the New York Fashion Week.

Or the great Abraham Lincoln .Failure after failure,mother’s death, job failure,dismissal at work,he faced bankruptcy.But he became one of the greatest presidents of USA of all time.

From defeat to defeat to the final victory!

Not to mention  J.K. Rowling,author of Harry Potter. Single mother who struggled just to make ends meet.She lived in  apartment that was greatly infested with rats.Her publisher said “Who will read fairy tales in the 21st century ? Give up”.And she didn’t .

Defeat your fears, and your all obstacles to achieve your dreams , and don’t forget You Can Do It!!!

 

Write Down Your Goal

Write down your goal to accomplish it faster, and to accomplish it at all !

What is human ?

It is unique combination of matter and energy. Matter which is filled with pure energy.It is life. We are humans, and we are LIFE .We are filled with life, and we are a life.Life is in us. Also life is all around you.Just look around you.Look at the tree. It grows, gives fruits,his leaves fallen and then again, and again.That is life.

When the wood dries, you can be sure that life left him.

Can we restrict  tree, and  tell him do not grow up anymore ? We can only cut off branches and if we’re not skilled the tree will die. You can be sure in that !

You are pure life my friend,just like tree. And life always wants to evolve,always pretends to develop.If he ceases to develop, he dies.The question is how life develops in us. We are developing through our goals. And we die if we do not have them. When we stop setting goals, our branches dry up slowly.

We have many depressed people, people who have no goals.People in which life does not develop. 

Are we like a tree !? In sense of life , yes we are, we can pull the analogy with it.We are pure life, just like a tree.But we are much more than a tree.We have free will to choose a way of life. We are conscious beings.The only conscious beings in nature. Can you imagine conscious tree ?

To finish school,to find a job, to create family, to publish a book, to travel around the world, to change your occupation, to heal yourself, to be happy, to be fit, to be……… No matter what your goal is,it’s important that you have it.You must have it .When you achieve one goal, immediately set the next one, that you would not become dissatisfied.

Write Down Your Goal

Do you want to achieve your goal? I believe you do.Then write down your goal on the paper. I will tell you why you should do that.
1.The goal is much more serious when it’s on paper;
2.You send a message to your subconscious to make it happen;
3.You can read your goal every day.

Also you should appoint the deadline to which you want to achieve your goal.This is very important. This is related to point one,but also with your subconscious level.

If you want to achieve your goal, you need to read it every day, a couple of times per day.It’s especially important to read it in the evening and in the morning.Do you have a faith !? I am asking you because you must believe that you will realize your goal.And you’ll believe it when you conquer your subconscious of it. According to Dr. Sitin this can be done after we read our goal 500 times.

No matter what your goal is, I am sure my dear friends that You Can Do It !!!

Paint Your Sea With Right Color

Pick the right color for your sea, to have a wonderful life !

There was once a wise ruler.He was aware of his power and that’s why he ruled very wisely.He wanted  everyone in his kingdom to be happy and he knew that happiness depends on him.He lived above all other citizens,in big castle.He commanded his servants every day. He had a lot of servants .

Depending on his command the slave was writing on paper message and carried further on execution.He traveled by boat to the port.A messenger awaited him in the port ready to react after reading the message.After each message, he would have poured lots of liquid into the sea.Each liquid had its own color and each color painted the whole sea after  that. Red,yellow, black,gray, green...

The color of the water was changed a couple of times per day,depends of the ruler. But what is interesting here ,that is the number of messengers which is huge. The ruler sent about 60,000 slaves every day.

Paint Your Sea With Right Color

The ruler is your brain !He is above all organs in every sense.He sends a thousands of messages to your hormones every day.Of these messages depends the  color of your sea.And  the ruler of the story from above is very wise because he knows that. He knows that if he send a negative message, the people will be unhappy.

These slaves are your thoughts. They carry messages to your hormones through your bloodstream.Yes, they are your slaves, respectively  your brain servant. They are not alone, they are not independent. You have about 60.000 thoughts per day.

The messenger is the gland that reads the message.You can not influence it directly,but you can influence your brain, which is their master.

The message is a protein, neuropeptide where your message is typed.The sea representation of our emotions.

The color of your emotions depends on your hormones, and they depend on your thoughts.

Your blood is red, and you can’t change that, but your sea are your emotions and  you can change their color with your mind.Will they be red,yellow, black,gray, green,blue or whatever, that depends only on you.

You are the owner of your thoughts, and with them of your life.

There is nothing like a bad mood.You have only bad emotions,because of bad thoughts .I’m not sure how you imagine the color of your emotions,but for me bad emotions are black and gray and the good ones are  blue, red, yellow.

Remember the color of your emotions depends only on you, but your whole life depends on them! Be wise , and paint them in the right color,the color of the love, the color of happiness,because I am sure now that You Can Do It !!!

 

 

 

Sometimes

                                           Sometimes it is hard ,but you have to move forward!

I listened to a story about a guy who gave up of his life . His last words was “I have no strength to go on“.He was only 25  years old.So young and already gave up. It’s not a lonely case.   I’m always sad when I hear that.

Life is like climbing on mountain, on whose top you never need to climb,because  from the top, the path leads down. You’ll have a lot of crises,many destinations where your air will disappear.But in that moments you must move on.You will not get all  battles,but you will get the war,and that is the most important thing !

Sometimes  you will come across a wall. Sometimes sometimes you’ll be frightened. Sometimes you  will think that you have no strength.Do not let this discourage you.This is normal,you are just a human being. 

You must know that there is no mountain that is easy to climb,because the mountain is just a hill, and for every hill you need a lot of effort . For every success in life you need a lot of energy,and a lot of  courage.But you need a lot of courage to give up.That is not an easy task  too.

Giving up is unique for  human beings only.Animals never give up. I’ve never heard of a cat that got tired of hunting and who therefore gave up,but I heard about many people who gave up.

You are not alone in your road.First of all you are your bigger support.You are  a conscious being, and you must be aware of that.You are your biggest friend and your biggest enemy .You have to be aware of that .

In this road will find obstacles.Sometimes you will think that it is impossible to overcome them.They will look too big for you,but in fact they are not. 

Biggest obstacle is the one in your head.Your own obstacles,your fear of failure.Then, be brave enough to ask for help.I will be here always to support you, to tell you that you can do it ! To  help you to climb over the wall,because I really believe in you and in your path too, and I am sure that You Can Do It !!!