Simplicity Part II is a continuation of the previous post called Simplicity. Why I called him Simplicity !? Because life is very simple, and people are sometimes complicate .
Robin Sharma is right. Simplicity is real power, and she can change your life on better. Just try it with small things. Try to be honest with yourself, and one whole new world will open in the front of you as a seashell and inside you will find a pearl!
Friend: Without words looking at me. But as you know, the eyes are the mirror of the soul, and he is telling me with eyes “YOU ARE RIGHT“.
Me: In life, you always have a choice. Always. To see things from a positive or from negative side. But what is the most important thing,you have a choice to be a victim or to be a predator .Life is hard, and life slaps you. But you have to kick him back.
Friend: How ?
Me: With simplicity !
Friend: With simplicity !?
Me: Yes. Life is simple if you have a simple access to life. Can I be honest my friend ?
Me: You are dissatisfied with your life, although it looks like you have(had) everything. Job, house, family,but in fact you hate your job. You had a dream to open your own company, but you never tried anything in that field. Because your fear of failure was greater than your desire for success. And you started to drink, with the intent to quench your desire. One weekend, beer, two, then in working days, then day after day,everyday . And you became an alcoholic.That’s why your family suffered. Because of your fear.
Friend: Please stop.
Me: I will continue. Because of alcohol, you became anxious, weak, and all the time you felt the guilty conscience. And in some period you were aware that you will destroy your life. But in fact, you thought it was a punishment for yourself for unfulfilled dreams.You thought you deserved it .And now you are here, alone, without job, family, money, but with big, really big feeling of guilt.
Friend: O my God, I am lost.I had everything, and now, I have nothing.
Me: You have a second chance to be honest to yourself.You are born again but with one more ability, with one more experience .Death experience . You are like Phoenix bird , born from ashes,born for the new beginning. That is great power, and you must use it.But first you need to be honest with yourself, totally.Without that, you will lose another chance .
Friend: I am honest, I know I have a problem.
Me: You don’t have a problem. You are the problem.Your way of thinking is a big problem , because you are so destructive toward yourself, and toward people who love you, who care about you.
Oh, I will continue in my net post. This was long conversation, and it seems that I need a more space .Stay tuned and please don’t forget to be honest toward yourself.Life is very simple if we are simple .
Don’t forget You Can Do It !!!