When the winch yourself up from the “I told you”, you can say that your are mature !
We are all humans.We all have merits and demerits.We all sharing tips and God we love when we are right. With good intentions to our children, to our friends we giving advice’s, and we receiving advice’s too .This is all normal. All you have experienced the sentence “I told you ” from your loved ones, from your friends. And this is normal.
What is not normal in most cases. Your reactions. Feelings of guilt.
How many times in your life have you been at the crossroads and you have asked someone for advice. You must to make decisions every day.Some decisions are small and irrelevant and some decisions are big and they can turn your life for 180 degrees.
I will tell you something. The hardest thing in life is make decisions.This is very hard sometimes.
After the battle we are all the generals ! This means that we all know what we should have done and what not.But you must know also that belated wisdom is not wisdom !
Your life is your hole time in your hands. This is something what we should learn in school.
The boy wanted to become an actor and he wanted to enroll on the Academy of Dramatic Arts.But his parents were against that.They told him that is very hard to enroll academy and that a very few people enroll in the academy. The entrance examination is very difficult. Their desire was to enroll medical school.
And the first time he failed to enroll on the Academy, and the second time. And his father told him famous sentence “I told you!
On the third attempt he enrolled at the Academy and he became a movie star.He became famous .
As Einstein said, Every action has reaction ! Stop paying attention to the famous sentence “I told you” and live your life with full lungs. If you failed, don’t blame yourself. Try to make conclusion, and to learn new lesson .But the most important lesson is that you will failed sometimes whatever you do ,and this is normal. You will make some decisions for which you will after some time said they were wrong , but you must say to yourself in that period “belated wisdom is not wisdom” .
All we in ourselves speaks with our other creature,with our alter ego . And even worst is when you say to yourself I told you. If you are doing this, just stop. It is not worth. You have only one life, and there is no point to waste him on guilt feelings .
Make decisions, choose your ways, and I will finish with title of my favorite book from my childhood “Do not look back, my son“.
You Can Do It !!!