The greater the obstacle(s), the more glory in overcoming it!

Once lived one man on the island.He was engaged in cattle breeding.He had  sheep, cows, horses.Then he decide  to sell everything he had and to move into the city, to  become a photographer,because he loved to watch pictures in the newspapers.

And he sold everything and became a photographer.Just like that, he bought a camera and found a job in local newspapers.And he worked every day without any problems.Then he decided to become an actor.He applied for an audition for a new film and he got the main role.He became a famous actor.

Then, he decided to marry and have a family.He found a woman of his dreams and they got married.He bought the house of his dreams. Then he decided to become a famous singer.He went to the studio and recorded a couple of songs and became famous all around the world.

He became unhappy with his life and with successes  and none of them he did not appreciate enough.He started drinking and like everything in life he was the best in that too.

What was missing to the main character of my story ?

Obstacles. Everything went smoothly in his life.Most people who win a lottery spend all the money and  back to the start.Why. Because they do not appreciate them enough because they came to them easily.

Story above is not real, because we need obstacle(s) on our way in order to achieve success and evolve.

Obstacles are your road sign that you are on the right road. Without them you would be lost.Without them you would not appreciate enough your success. Without them you  can not make success!

PER ASPER AD ASTRA-through hardships to the stars!

Whatever you do in life, you will meet obstacles.You will find them on your way , you can be sure,but you must prepare your brain for them. No matter how good you are, or you think you are, you will find obstacle (s) on your way.You have here two choices :
– to let them to discourage you;
– to overcome them.

First, you must defeat  your biggest obstacle. Your mind .Your mind could be your biggest friend or  your worst enemy.The biggest obstacle is in your head.When you  overpower that obstacle, all others will be a piece of cake for you.

Do yo think that you have to be beautiful to be a famous actor ?You’re wrong! Just look at the Sylvester Stallone. Because of birth trauma, the lower left side of his face is paralyzed, just like his mouth,they are slightly crooked and his tongue is partly paralyzed.But his brain was not his biggest obstacle!

Or Madeline Stuart who was born with Down Syndrome but she had a one dream . To become a model!? And she did it.She recently appeared as a model on the New York Fashion Week.

Or the great Abraham Lincoln .Failure after failure,mother’s death, job failure,dismissal at work,he faced bankruptcy.But he became one of the greatest presidents of USA of all time.

From defeat to defeat to the final victory!

Not to mention  J.K. Rowling,author of Harry Potter. Single mother who struggled just to make ends meet.She lived in  apartment that was greatly infested with rats.Her publisher said “Who will read fairy tales in the 21st century ? Give up”.And she didn’t .

Defeat your fears, and your all obstacles to achieve your dreams , and don’t forget You Can Do It!!!


Write Down Your Goal

Write down your goal to accomplish it faster, and to accomplish it at all !

What is human ?

It is unique combination of matter and energy. Matter which is filled with pure energy.It is life. We are humans, and we are LIFE .We are filled with life, and we are a life.Life is in us. Also life is all around you.Just look around you.Look at the tree. It grows, gives fruits,his leaves fallen and then again, and again.That is life.

When the wood dries, you can be sure that life left him.

Can we restrict  tree, and  tell him do not grow up anymore ? We can only cut off branches and if we’re not skilled the tree will die. You can be sure in that !

You are pure life my friend,just like tree. And life always wants to evolve,always pretends to develop.If he ceases to develop, he dies.The question is how life develops in us. We are developing through our goals. And we die if we do not have them. When we stop setting goals, our branches dry up slowly.

We have many depressed people, people who have no goals.People in which life does not develop. 

Are we like a tree !? In sense of life , yes we are, we can pull the analogy with it.We are pure life, just like a tree.But we are much more than a tree.We have free will to choose a way of life. We are conscious beings.The only conscious beings in nature. Can you imagine conscious tree ?

To finish school,to find a job, to create family, to publish a book, to travel around the world, to change your occupation, to heal yourself, to be happy, to be fit, to be……… No matter what your goal is,it’s important that you have it.You must have it .When you achieve one goal, immediately set the next one, that you would not become dissatisfied.

Write Down Your Goal

Do you want to achieve your goal? I believe you do.Then write down your goal on the paper. I will tell you why you should do that.
1.The goal is much more serious when it’s on paper;
2.You send a message to your subconscious to make it happen;
3.You can read your goal every day.

Also you should appoint the deadline to which you want to achieve your goal.This is very important. This is related to point one,but also with your subconscious level.

If you want to achieve your goal, you need to read it every day, a couple of times per day.It’s especially important to read it in the evening and in the morning.Do you have a faith !? I am asking you because you must believe that you will realize your goal.And you’ll believe it when you conquer your subconscious of it. According to Dr. Sitin this can be done after we read our goal 500 times.

No matter what your goal is, I am sure my dear friends that You Can Do It !!!

Paint Your Sea With Right Color

Pick the right color for your sea, to have a wonderful life !

There was once a wise ruler.He was aware of his power and that’s why he ruled very wisely.He wanted  everyone in his kingdom to be happy and he knew that happiness depends on him.He lived above all other citizens,in big castle.He commanded his servants every day. He had a lot of servants .

Depending on his command the slave was writing on paper message and carried further on execution.He traveled by boat to the port.A messenger awaited him in the port ready to react after reading the message.After each message, he would have poured lots of liquid into the sea.Each liquid had its own color and each color painted the whole sea after  that. Red,yellow, black,gray, green...

The color of the water was changed a couple of times per day,depends of the ruler. But what is interesting here ,that is the number of messengers which is huge. The ruler sent about 60,000 slaves every day.

Paint Your Sea With Right Color

The ruler is your brain !He is above all organs in every sense.He sends a thousands of messages to your hormones every day.Of these messages depends the  color of your sea.And  the ruler of the story from above is very wise because he knows that. He knows that if he send a negative message, the people will be unhappy.

These slaves are your thoughts. They carry messages to your hormones through your bloodstream.Yes, they are your slaves, respectively  your brain servant. They are not alone, they are not independent. You have about 60.000 thoughts per day.

The messenger is the gland that reads the message.You can not influence it directly,but you can influence your brain, which is their master.

The message is a protein, neuropeptide where your message is typed.The sea representation of our emotions.

The color of your emotions depends on your hormones, and they depend on your thoughts.

Your blood is red, and you can’t change that, but your sea are your emotions and  you can change their color with your mind.Will they be red,yellow, black,gray, green,blue or whatever, that depends only on you.

You are the owner of your thoughts, and with them of your life.

There is nothing like a bad mood.You have only bad emotions,because of bad thoughts .I’m not sure how you imagine the color of your emotions,but for me bad emotions are black and gray and the good ones are  blue, red, yellow.

Remember the color of your emotions depends only on you, but your whole life depends on them! Be wise , and paint them in the right color,the color of the love, the color of happiness,because I am sure now that You Can Do It !!!





                                           Sometimes it is hard ,but you have to move forward!

I listened to a story about a guy who gave up of his life . His last words was “I have no strength to go on“.He was only 25  years old.So young and already gave up. It’s not a lonely case.   I’m always sad when I hear that.

Life is like climbing on mountain, on whose top you never need to climb,because  from the top, the path leads down. You’ll have a lot of crises,many destinations where your air will disappear.But in that moments you must move on.You will not get all  battles,but you will get the war,and that is the most important thing !

Sometimes  you will come across a wall. Sometimes sometimes you’ll be frightened. Sometimes you  will think that you have no strength.Do not let this discourage you.This is normal,you are just a human being. 

You must know that there is no mountain that is easy to climb,because the mountain is just a hill, and for every hill you need a lot of effort . For every success in life you need a lot of energy,and a lot of  courage.But you need a lot of courage to give up.That is not an easy task  too.

Giving up is unique for  human beings only.Animals never give up. I’ve never heard of a cat that got tired of hunting and who therefore gave up,but I heard about many people who gave up.

You are not alone in your road.First of all you are your bigger support.You are  a conscious being, and you must be aware of that.You are your biggest friend and your biggest enemy .You have to be aware of that .

In this road will find obstacles.Sometimes you will think that it is impossible to overcome them.They will look too big for you,but in fact they are not. 

Biggest obstacle is the one in your head.Your own obstacles,your fear of failure.Then, be brave enough to ask for help.I will be here always to support you, to tell you that you can do it ! To  help you to climb over the wall,because I really believe in you and in your path too, and I am sure that You Can Do It !!! 


I Pray For…

“I have been driven many times upon my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had no where else to go. My own wisdom and that of all about me seemed insufficient for that day.” – Abraham Lincoln

I pray for love !
(because love is the the most beautiful emotion in the world)

I pray for my family!
( because family is for me the most important thing in life )

I pray for an open mind !
(because to have an understanding of people and opportunities around me I must have a mind, open to events and emotions that I have not experienced)

I pray for physical health !
(because without physical health, without health of  machine I can not realize my dreams)

I pray for mental health!
(because without mental I will have unjustified fear of people and events)

I pray for opportunities !
(because it is necessary to attract opportunities in  life,to realize my dreams)

I pray for wisdom to recognize them!
(because the opportunity is not always clearly visible and sometimes  came in the form of a temporary defeat)

I pray for  the courage to use them!
( because no matter how strong we want something ,
we need a lot of courage to accomplish this )

I pray for the strength !
(because strength is important for us to stay immune to others’ opinions, and for life troubles)

I pray for ideas !
(because we need ideas in life whose realization will make our dreams come true )

I pray for change !
(because if I am not ready for change my life will be the same always)

I pray for better me !
(because I want to be better than yesterday and worse than tomorrow)

I pray  for better you !
( because if you are better as as an individual, the world will be a better place )

I pray for  knowledge!
(because with knowledge  it’s much easier to have understanding for others and for your wishes )

I pray for wisdom !
(because I believe in wisdom.To be fulfilled you need a lot of wisdom)

I pray for own thought !
( because it’s very important to always have your own opinion.Opinion which is the result of your thinking and your connection with your higher being)

I pray for support !
(because it is very important to find support in prayer, to be  aware that you are part of the universe, and that you are not alone)

I pray for understanding !
( because it’s nice when others understand you and when you understand them)


I pray every day with faith, with emotions for positive things in life. In my life, I’m always focused on positive things.You must know that in the state of prayer you are outside the material world.You are like baby ! You are in the third dimension, connected with greater intelligence. In this state, your energy is like magnet and your thoughts are  huge force.

If you want health, you have to focus on health not on the disease.This little e change in focus will make great changes in your life because it brought me big changes.

Everything  in what  you’re ready to believe, you can achieve.

I pray for you to believe that You Can Do It !!!

The Sunshine Blogger Award (3)

In accordance with the law of attraction, the same things attract the same things. One lovely blogger award has attracted the Sunshine blogger award !

The person who nominated me is dear  and irresistible Whitney. Her blog is the same. If you need Comfort, go there .If you need Love, go there. If you need Support go there. If you need God’s Word. Just go there and I am sure you will be  satisfied!

Thank you Whitney !

Here, I have to answer on couple questions, so here is my answers ! I will pass the questions later to my nominated !

What’s your inspiration?

People. People around me.Brave people. People who think with their heads.People with their opinions. People who are ready  for change. To change oneself primarily. People who are brave enough to be different. They are my inspiration.Real superheroes !

What is the best thing you’ve done this year?

Oh, there are many things and competition is strong. I like to believe that it is this blog. From this year I have a self hosting blog. I was on free wp platform last year, but now, I have my own domain.

If you were to change one thing in your life, what would it be?

I would have deleted all the fears and doubts!

What is your safe haven?

I said once somewhere, that I have my safe place.It is a place above clouds,I have a throne there  , where I sit and rise above all my problems. I am there couple minutes per day, in my meditative state.

What is your favorite meal?

I like to eat white meat, fish.  It’s a low-fat food. The fish is rich in omega-3 fatty acids  and I like to eat healthy food. I eat to live, I do not live to eat 🙂

When are you most productive?

In the morning in every way :). I like to  get up very early, and I am feeling fresh in that period. I’m starting a day with a meditation and then various ideas come to my mind.

What do you do in your spare time?

What is that ?I don’t believe in spare time. I always do something. I don’t have spare time. I read, or I am writing, or I am on the Forex market, or I am playing with my kids, with my dog .So spare time !

What was the most challenging moment in your blogging journey so far?

I got a comment that sounded “You are great writer”. I thought in myself “Me, the writer!!!???I don’t consider myself as a writer. And I was terrified because I thought of all the famous writers like Hemingway,Dostoevsky,Dickens, Orwell,Twain , Kafka, Camus ….  I comforted myself with words, they are real writers, and I am just a blogger.

What super power would you want if you could have one?

That would be the power to heal people, definitely !

Would you encourage other people to make their blog and why?

I encourage people to do what they want because I consider that the road to the star is covered with thorns. And people need every support they can get on that road.

Who is your style icon?


The Messy Beard Food Blog

Siddhartha Dua


Madison LaBarge









Questions For My Nominees:

What’s your inspiration?

What is the best thing you’ve done this year?

If you were to change one thing in your life, what would it be?

What is your safe haven?

What is your favorite meal?

When are you most productive?

What do you do in your spare time?

What was the most challenging moment in your blogging journey so far?

What super power would you want if you could have one?

Would you encourage other people to make their blog and why?

Who is your style icon?


We Are Not Machines

We are not a machine, although we sometimes behave like that !

I watched a show where the journalist got the idea to test our  humanity. He lay down on the street where pedestrians walk and he pretended to be dead. No one approached him for 20 minutes. He lay there for 20 minutes and stood up in disbelief . I was shocked !

What happened to us ? Are we machines ?
Where our hearts have disappeared ?

We made a bypass but  we lost the heart! We think too much  but we do not feel enough ! We build bridges but we are not connected ! We feed a lot our body, but our soul  a little!

We make big houses but we’re destroying families ! We buy pills that cure everything but we do not want to look into ourselves! We know too much , but we apply knowledge a little !

We love a little bit, but we hate a lot ! We have  a term for those who spread hatred “Haters“,but we don’t have a term for those who spread love! We want a lot,  but we’re working on it a bit !

We are fighting against the war, but not for the peace! We  want to change others but not ourselves! We have large telescopes but narrow horizons ! We fight for ideals but not for morality!  We learn to love even though we were born with it!

We picture ourselves more but we have less and less pictures!We have a lot of pictures on social medias but we don’t have a photo album! We live in a virtual world and less and less in reality!  We have more and more reality shows but we do not have our own lives ! 

I believe in humanity. I believe in you ! Although,they are trying to make machines from us, we are not machines, we are humans. We have a heart and soul, and now we have a proof for that. We have love in our hearts. We are humans ! We are God’s creatures, light creatures with great possibilities, to share love, to share positive energy , to think with own head !

Maybe you have fake smile, fake lips, fake breasts,but under your skin is not machine, under your skin  is blood and flesh, under your skin are cells, under your skin is energy, under is soul, under is real you !

Be yourself, talk about love, talk about positive energy, share positive vibes over the globe .Tell the people you love, loud and clear I love you, I care about you. Show them that you are not machine, that you are human being, that you have a soul, and you will attract positive energy in your life, and your life will change on better !

You Can Do It !!!

One Lovely Blog Award (2)

While I’m drinking my coffee I’m writing this Award post about One Lovely Blog Award ,and I like to say Thank you  to my friends Vero and little Canito. They have not only wonderful blog, they have also a wonderful soul.You can check in link above  how one  structural engineer write about cooking, about  kitchen creations … Amazing !

Thank you Vero and say hello to baby Canito,on any language, I’m sure he  will understand 🙂

Maybe this is the same award I have already received, because everything in life goes in circles!


  1. Each nominee must thank the person who nominated them and link their blog in their post.
  2. They must include the rules and add the blog award badge as an image.
  3. Must add 7 facts about themselves.
  4. Nominate 15 people to do the award.

Seven things about me (the hardest part)

  1. I don’t like rules in life.
  2. I do not watch sports on television.
  3. I like to eat chicken because it’s healthy.
  4. I  eat to live,I do not live to eat .
  5. I love fairy tales.In fact I’m inventing them, and I tell kids before bedtime.
  6. I really believe that is the best way to predict your future is to create it .
  7. As a kid, I believed it that seven is  my lucky number .

My nominees are:





Adel Hanifa

His Perfect Timing

Cathy Lynn




Thank you, and don’t forget also that You Can Do It !!!

Interview With Ben Aqiba

In my Alpha state, before my bad time I told my subconscious to ask me a few questions to which I will give answers on my blog. When I woke up I wrote down the questions. These are her subconscious questions and my conscience answers. I will called her in text below Alpha !

This is the interview of my subconscious with me !

Alpha: In what you believe ? This is good question :)… In knowledge. I believe in knowledge. But not in any kind of knowledge. I believe in the knowledge that enables us to develop. Knowledge about us, humans is definitely that kind of knowledge. Knowledge that helps us to understand who we are and what we are. I believe also that ignorance divides humanity. Because we  are born as an empty plate “TABULA RASA“, and our parents and our teachers print the information in it, in the beginning, and later  we ourselves. Can you imagine how world would be when all people would learn about themselves much more. These days they  bombing us from all with ads, with information which are useless for us.We need to filtered them, and to leave the space for real knowledge!

Alpha: Are you positive ? I’m trying to be. I am just human being, and I  run my own battles. But I know that the dominant thoughts in my head are positive. I always look at everything from a brighter side. Thoughts shape words<words shape actions<actions shape character<character shape destiny. I believe that everything will be ok in every situation. So, yeah, I am positive !

Alpha: What is your goal ? I have a lot of goals. My goal is to be happy always, because I believe that happiness is a journey not destination. Life is usually what happens to us while we are  chasing our goals. My goal is to be positive, to raise my kids on the best possible way, to be aware of themselves and their roles in the world, not to be a servant of the system or someone else’s,  to think with their heads. One of my goals is to create a community of positive people where we will learn from each other, and share positive energy.Positive energy is the key.

Alpha: Do you believe in love ? Of course I do . I feel love for everything I do. I am a product of love.Love between two people, love between two cells . We are born to share love. I  feel love for everything I do. When  I write post, when I reply on comment,when I ride a bike. I love my family, my life. I love when I am able to do the things in which I enjoy . My children are a product of love. I believe that most people are born out of love. The lifespan is very short to spend it on negative things. I really believe that the love is all we need.

Alpha: Why “You Can Do It” ? Just look at around us,and you will see  what all man did. Everything you see is born in one’s head first. Bridge, airplane, car, electricity etc. I could write by tomorrow. The biggest obstacles are those in our head. You can do it is a grenade that breaks these obstacles.When you believe that you can do it, you can do it. I  would return to the first question here. The knowledge is power !


Alpha: And one more question.Why you think that I am stupid ? (read first Your subconscious is stupid) . Because you are 🙂 You believe everything I tell you. That black is white, and that white is black.  You  don’t  have  opinion about  anything.  If  I  know how,I can  influence you when I want. Although I have to admit that you’re a great servant but a bad master, just like money ! Although maybe I was too rough, You are just naive 🙂

Thank you for reading my dear friends and don’t forget that You Can Do It !!!

Stephen Hawking Is Moving

Stephen Hawking is moving too, because nothing in the world stands still, everything vibrates,with a certain frequency !

If you want to know the secrets of the Universe, think in terms of frequency, energy and vibrationNikola Tesla.

This is one of the basic laws of nature. If you think you’re still, you’re wrong. If you think you can’t levitate, you’re wrong. The greatest discovery of the modern man was that the atom is empty.It is full of energy which vibrate with certain frequency.

The healthier we are, the vibration is higher.The first thing we need to heal is the frequency of our body. But first you must know that you are pure energy.Energy which vibrate with certain frequency! With this knowledge you are ready for the next fact. 

Your present life is the result of your thoughts from the past ! With same  thoughts like yesterday, your future will be the same like your present,in every sense ! You know for now that you have about 60.000 thoughts in one day.These thoughts, together with your environment, determine the frequency of your body.

People are beings  of habit, and our thoughts are the  result of our habits. The main question is here, what are the dominant thoughts of your mind ?

Please here, be honest !

Because, if the dominant thoughts in your head are negative, then you are set to a low-frequency!If you constantly blame yourself for everything,if you’re scared,if you’re angry, than you will create a bad emotions which will lower the frequency of your body and lead to illness.

I’ll take the feeling of guilt with frequency of 30 Hz , which is a terribly low-frequency as an example. If you constantly feel guilty for something you did or for something you did not do, I must say to you a couple of things :
you live in the past;
– the feeling of guilt is the dominant emotion in your mind;
you are set to a low frequency field .


All this things are bad for your, because you have a great chance to get sick. I love to say, that you are what you think you are. You must change your frequency my friend, now, immediately ! This is not to hard, just change your focus on positive things. Pay attention on the things you have already. Love, home, friends.

Change your expectations. Expect positive things to happen to you. Instead of failure, expect success. Instead  of illness except health. Try to convince yourself that you are happy, because I am sure that you have a lot of reasons for that.

Write it on paper:   “I am happy,  I am healthy. My  life  is  filled  with  joy and happy.  I am perfect human being, because I am living in perfect time, on perfect place, in perfect body “, and read this every day after awakening and before sleep . And you will be all that.You will increase your body frequency on higher level.

Your energy is in your hands.Use it in the best possible way, because I know that You Can Do It !!!