Do Not Accept…

Your life is a set of your choices !!!

Do not accept to be ordinary .

Do not accept to be mediocrity .

Do not accept to be sick.

Do not accept to  work a job which you don’t like.

Do not accept to be in bad marriage.

Do not accept tо crawl in life.

Do not accept to judge others.

Do not accept not to think with your own head.

Do not accept to impose you their opinions.

Do not accept to impose you their taste.

Do not accept to lose yourself .

Do not accept to compete with others.

Do not accept to be slave.

Do not accept to your fear overcome you.

Do not accept life which you don’t like.

Sometimes we are not aware that our life is in our hands. Our hole life is in our hands.Where we live, how we live is the meter of our choices . We sometimes make some choices unconsciously to please others (parents, society,friends), because it is easier .Simple, we don’t want to be criticized. With that we  accept the rules that others impose to us. But please, do not accept….. to go to college because of your parents (if you don’t want that), to work every day from 9-5 if you don’t want, to live in the country where are you born if you don’t want, to work the job which you hate, to do anything in your life which is against your will.

You have a free will to accept or not the things .

My friend told me that he want to change his job, because he despises him, boss mistreats him, but he have a good salary and good reputation, and a lot of people would do anything to work in that company. And it is so rude  to be dissatisfied with his job, because his parents are very proud on him too. It is sin !

This is a one great example of  a man who is not his own master. He is ready to accept all that torture which create to much stress for him, to save that perfect image about him, to please his parents and society.

If you asking me, this is a very big price for that.

Do not fall on baits set by others. They are here just to keep you in the line. Make your own choices.Next time when you be in situation in which you are unsatisfied you must know that you are accepted that !

Do not accept not to believe in sentence You Can Do It !!!



Once in a time, I have discovered that we are, humans,we are walking universe. That we create our own destiny. After that, nothing was the same !


  1. Abe Lincoln’s saying at the top is the one I used in my PhD graduation speech! I love it! I can understand the situation with your friend. I was in a position at a prestigious place in town, but I was miserable! The pay was amazing, and to everyone else it made sense to work there with my PhD. I didn’t see the place allowing me time to follow the direction I believed my life should go. It wasn’t an easy decision, but I left the place. I’m so much happier, and I’m chasing my dreams. Life is too short to be unhappy.


    • Hi Ipuna,

      thank you for your story. I know that your decision was not easy. You are a very brave woman.Only the bravest people can make such a decision and you are very brave and positive.At the crossroads mostly the right road is the hardest.Right on that weight is a signpost for us to the right goal.And I’m sure you’ll catch your dreams.I have no doubt about that. Yes Ipuna, life is too short to be unhappy.Great closing arguments 🙂


    • You are welcome Ipuna 🙂
      I know you will succeed because you have the most important thing,and that is courage .
      Good luck and stay positive


  2. Thank you, Ben, for another interesting article.
    Yes, we accept too much things and doing so we cannot pretend to get different things than other people get. We only can expect to live others’ dream and not ours!


    • Thank you so much Jordi,

      I believe that the key of our happiness is in our hands.
      When we start to reject the things ,we will become happy .
      If we do not reject things, that means we accept them,and why to accept the things with which we disagree !?


    • Thank you so much Stella ,for your kind comment.I really believe that we,humans, should be less tolerant to the stated things 🙂


    • Hi Christy,

      yes, I believe that our hole life is in our hand. Our life is the result of our choices, and our acceptance. If we are against something in life, we must not be passive about that, we must do our best to change that. Otherwise we accepted it,right.

      Thank you so much


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