I’m Sorry

To err is humanly, to forgive is godlike !

Two best friends they grew up together.They shared good and bad in life. They went to the same school.They lived in the same  location on the same town.They spent their entire lives together. In life it happens once that you meet a person of the same energy like you. That was that friendships which should last forever.

When they grew up, and began to study they have agreed to come together in old  neighborhood.They arranged to meet at the old oak.It was a huge oak from their childhood  around which were built small shopping facilities.

One was waiting on one side and the other on the other side of oak.

They waited 15 minutes and they both went home angry.

They had never talked again.

Love, when it is sincere and deep, easily forgives and forgets.

But there is something stronger than love. It is proud.It is ego.

To say I’m sorry you have to conquer your ego.You must admit that you are wrong,that you are just a ordinary human being with all merits and demerits.In true story above, both friends were right and both were wrong.It was a misunderstanding.But in their minds they thought they were right.They failed to beat the ego and to ask his friend where have you been !?

Here is a little test for you.As in all my tests it require only sincerity .

  1. Do you think you are always right ?
  2. Do you think that you are right in most cases ?
  3. Is it hard for you to say sorry ?
  4. Does your ignorance  about some topic you defend with your contempt?

If the answer is YES on most questions, than you have a problem to say sorry !You should work on yourself  to make it get there. If I could choose the words that I must pronounce it would be Thank you and I am sorry.

Those words means that I am human.That I am conscious being. That I am great.

We all have bad days.We all have days  when we react excessively,when we say things that we do not think .This is normal. But after that, when you realize that you are wrong say I’m sorry. You will feel much better after that. That will build you as a human being,and after some time you will be free.

 

Defeat your ego.It is not your friend.You’ll be great only if you defeat your ego. You will be great only when you admit your mistakes.Can you imagine society where everybody are ready to say sorry and everybody are ready to say thank you .

Of course, another person should be ready to accept that.

 

You Can Do It !!!

Ben

Once in a time, I have discovered that we are, humans,we are walking universe. That we create our own destiny. After that, nothing was the same !

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