It Is Hard

It is hard sometimes to be different,it is hard, but it is necessary ! 

It’s hard to be your own, because we are all trying to assimilate into the society.To be socially acceptable we try to think like the other,to look like the other,to listen the music like others, to watch the same shows like others.But we are not like others. We are a unique combination of energy and matter .Wake up !!!

It’s hard to be positive when  there is a lot of negativity around us. Movies are destructive. I do not remember when I looked a movie without at least one murder.Watching other people’s accidents brings you a lot of views on the you tube. In this way, our subconscious mind is shaped to accept such things as normal.

It’s hard respect others when nobody respects us. Generally we live in material word, where only money is respected.If you don’t have money, that means that you are incompetent.Today, false values take precedence.

It’s hard  to help others when no one wants to help us. Our  subconscious mind is formed from birth.Starting with cartoons ,through video games, movies, musics . They teach us that “only the strongest survive“. Yes, this is true, but in animal world. We are humans  !

It’s hard  to be grateful when they learn us that we have to do something with our lives to be grateful for. On this way maybe, you will never be  satisfied enough to say Thank you ! You should be grateful now, not tomorrow.Be grateful for today, for life, kids, health,sight, day, night. Look in the future but be grateful for your present. 

It’s hard to speak about soul  in material world, in the world when the material values are higher. Why they don’t teach us in the school that we are so powerful beings that we can heal ourselves, that we are  the most powerful beings in the world, that we should build our emotions  .Because we must buy  medicines not to heal ourselves.

It’s hard to be gentle when they teach us to be tough. Tenderness is treated as a weakness in this world. I watch one show where husbands sent a message to  their wives. Simple message “I love you”.Women were shocked,literally. In a life race for money we forget  the most important thing “Love”. We have forgotten the reason we were born. Sun of love is always above our heads, and in our lives, just pay attention to him.

It’s hard but it is necessary my friends if you want to be a human beings. It’s hard to be a man these days.Share love, be gentle, be nice , be kind,be like a baby  because you are human being,with all the faults and virtues.

It’s hard but you must know that You Can Do It !!!


Once in a time, I have discovered that we are, humans,we are walking universe. That we create our own destiny. After that, nothing was the same !


    • Hello Nigel,

      that is so correct. You are very wise man Nigel, and I am happy every time when I see your comment here !

      Thank you so much for your valuable time


    • Wow…I don’t know what to say on this comment.
      I will say just one great word in which I believe deeply THANK YOU !


  1. Agree with you Ben. Its hard in today’s world to maintain our unique individuality. Society always wants to brand us in a mold. To have the courage to break free and create our own personality is certainly daunting but not impossible.


    • Hello Radhika,

      you said to well.It is very hard to be a human being these days,because of all because of all the ideals that are imposed on us.But if you asking me, that is the one of the things we must do.

      Thank you so much for your comment


    • Hello Erika,

      that is so correct,you said it wonderful.
      I believe that the right path is in most cases the strongest one .That is the reason why people are ready to change their dreams for easy substitute.

      Thank you so much for your comment 🙂


    • Hello Gigi,

      I believe that for you, everything is so easy,because you have a great and powerful energy .Most people follow the norms but only brave creates them!

      Thank you so much for your time and valuable comment


    • Hi Angela,

      you are so correct. For me it is “a must”.It is hard but we must be humans !

      Thank you for your time and comment


  2. Very well written Ben. Putting the information you have written could prove beneficial to many. Thank you for sharing. 👍☺


    • Hello Mr Mel,

      thank you so much for your comment.I am glad you like it !
      Your comment is always so welcome on my blog, because you are very wise .

      God bless you


    • Hi Subbashini,

      what can I say, I love simplicity in life. As Einstein said “If you can’t explain in simple way, you did not understand well either“.

      Thank you for reading 🙂


  3. And the more we follow these guidelines: be different, be kind, be grateful, be positive, be gentle, use our soul – the easier it gets! <3


    • Hi Pamela,

      yes that is so true. By this we prove that we are human beings,and we attract positive energy in our life !

      Thank you so much for your comment


  4. Just wanna add more love❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ to this lovely post..
    You are a star. How simply you put the most important things. Adorable hugs
    Keep writing, I love reading 🙂 we can do It!!!


    • Hello Jay,

      I hope you are fine.
      Thank you for your positivism,it is always welcome on my blog.
      As you know I like simplicity. My life is simple, my thoughts are simple, my words are simple.

      I will for sure. Thank you so much for your comment


    • Hello my dear friends,

      that is something in us, like a curse.We don’t appreciate things about we did not invest much effort.That is in human nature.But in fact, I believe in obstacles , they are here to learn us that for every success we need a lot of effort.But for every effort, we need a lot of courage,which is good for our development 🙂

      Thank you so much.Keep writing for us and cooking for my buddy Canito


  5. In particular the part about speaking with the soul in a material world resonated with me. It’s hard… but your post makes it easier for us to understand <3


    • Hi Carly,

      in most cases people are hard.Life is just a life 🙂

      Welcome to my blog. Stay positive

      Thank you for your comment


    • Hi my friend,

      I hope you are fine. That is great symphony . I have enjoyed
      Thank you for sharing that with us 🙂


  6. can’t agree more….every word speaks volume…n I try n follow most of what u said


  7. O Ben! You bring smile to my face as I am blessed with your smiling face and your likes to the posts.
    Now, about It Is Hard…Chee-whiz! Me? Wonderfully Simple. Delightfully effortlessly, i’m going on and on. Most of the now time? Up and up my spirit is soared. To the highest my spirit scores. I’m Back! this Time? That Is What? My secret? No secret at all. That you are liking in the posts. Welcome back, that’s that! 🙂


    • Hello Licona,

      well said.I love when people are happy around me.I love to make them happy,with my words, with my energy.I love when their spirit is happy,then I am happy too.You are very simple person , and that is a characteristic of the wise people.

      Thank you so much for your kind comment


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