The Price Of The Differences

In the Ser province, in the middle age was lived one prince  Gor.He was  very well known and respected throughout the hole kingdom.His father was a great king and he had always listen to him.The people were happy because the king had a decent successor.But the Gor had a own  opinion

Next to them in their neighborhood has lived the barbarian tribe which is constantly attacked the kingdom, day by day, year after year, with the intent to take away as much territory as they can from them.

Prince Gor had his own life, he dreamed big dreams,far from castle.He dreamed of marrying a daughter of an old fisherman.He dreamed about  a humble life, far away from city noise.He was not excited by the idea being  prince.He was not excited by the idea that one day he will inherit his father on the throne.He was different.He was the only child of the great king.

His father is decided to marry him  with the daughter of the leader of the barbarians with intention to provide a much-needed peace for his people and country.When he said that to his son, he was devastated but he did not want to oppose his father’s will. Gor had a own  opinion.

They agreed to meet wedding on the bridge between the two empires,and to  prince meets  princess there.When they  are supposed to meet  the Gor is climbed to the edge of the bridge and jumped into the cold water.He did not want to oppose the will of his father on the one hand, but om the other he did not want to disobey himself.This was the price of his  differences.

Gor had a own  opinion.

Since he was an excellent swimmer they say he was swam far away,he returned at the a fisherman‘s daughter,and moved to distant places.His body was never found.Gor had a own  opinion.

 

So, Differences always cost.It is not easy to be different in this the same peoples world.It is not easy to dream big dreams when they teach us to be average, to be programmed, to be the same.But we are not same at all. We are all different in any sense.

But if you ask me it is necessary to be different if you want to be free. It is necessary if you want to be yourself, if you want to look at yourself in the eyes without shame, with pride.

Please don’t you ever listen other people when they tell you about your life,because they speak from their own perspective.I have never give importance to other people’s opinion,but I have hear a lot this sentences “Why you are  dissatisfied when you have everything in life“. People often mixed dissatisfaction and ambition, dissatisfaction and unhappiness.I am always happy and always pleased, on the other hand, I have big dreams,and I know I will achieved them

Be different not matter what cost, because You Can Do It !!!

 

Ben

Once in a time, I have discovered that we are, humans,we are walking universe. That we create our own destiny. After that, nothing was the same !

9 Comments

  1. Some say that if you cannot win them, then you need to join them.
    I disagree with that.We need to follow our dreams and every day make one step further but closer to or goals.You have explain very well in this great article.

    To be different is a challenge for the whole life.

    Ben,thank you for support my dear friend.

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    • Thank you for your comment my friend.
      Yes, we must be different, if we want to achieve our dreams.
      I wish you the best in you journey. I am sure that you will make it.
      Stay different

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  2. Another great and important topic, Ben!

    “…But if you ask me it is necessary to be different if you want to be free. It is necessary if you want to be yourself, if you want to look at yourself in the eyes without shame, with pride…”

    Yes, freedom is also about being yourself and not following the crowd.

    You must be very stubborn and with a lot of selfconfidence in order to make your dreams come true.

    You must also be realistic about your dreams, they must be ACHIEVABLE for you, according to your abilities / capacities. You must be smart enough to carry them out.

    And finally, you have to be willing to pay a price for being different. Personally I think this price is very cheap if you bear in mind the happiness and freedom that your dream can provide.

    Without any doubt it is worth it and You Can Do It 😉

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    • Hey Jordi,

      thank you for your comment.Is always welcome,and also so deep and valuable .
      I agree with you totally.We should believe in our dreams and they should be big.
      If our goal is to climb to the top of the mountain,we will succeed it to climb at least up to half of the mountain.

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